On Reaching Out
- Abhishek Soni
- Feb 2, 2024
- 2 min read
Updated: Feb 3, 2024

Success, in today's world, hinges not just on what you know but on who you know. Building a robust network and proactive outreach can be a game-changer and can propel you into new orbits of achievements.
Here are a few of my practical insights and actionable learnings:
The Two-New-People Rule:
Successful networking begins with a commitment to outreach. Adopt the two-new-people rule – reach out to at least two new individuals every week. Whether it's through social media, industry events, or mutual connections, take the initiative to broaden your horizons.
Julian Shapiro aptly describes reach as a serendipity engine. The simple act of reaching out to at least two new people every week can open doors to unforeseen opportunities.
Especially as a startup founder, actively expanding your reach can lead to valuable connections, partnerships, and insights.
The Network Ripple Effect:
Your networks are much more extensive than you think. If you have a specific person in mind, chances are someone in your current network can connect you or lead you to them.
Don't underestimate the power of second and third-degree connections - a friend, a colleague, or a mentor may lead you to the person you seek.
Cultivate and leverage your existing relationships to expand your reach exponentially and open doors you never thought were possible.
The Art of Follow-Up:
Building connections is not a one-time affair. Always follow up with both the person you've connected with and the connector. Send a heartfelt 'thank you' message, regardless of the outcome. This simple gesture not only reflects your professionalism but also lays the foundation for future collaborations.
Consistent follow-up is key to nurturing relationships over time.
The Law of Reciprocity:
One of the most potent human motivators is reciprocity. Help others without expecting immediate benefits.
By offering genuine assistance, advice, or support to your network, you create a positive and giving atmosphere.
And you'll find that the favours you extend will return to you in rewarding ways and when you least expect them.
The Power of Small Acts:
In the world of networking, small gestures can yield significant returns. Give something small to get back something big.
Whether it's sharing valuable insights, making introductions, or offering a helping hand, these small gestures can create a lasting impression. It's the accumulation of these small efforts that sets the stage for significant opportunities down the line.
Especially, the entrepreneurial world is interconnected, and being a giver sets the stage for receiving substantial support in return.
In concluding thoughts, always remember that your network is a priceless asset. More importantly, the journey to success is never a solo endeavour or a function of just hard work. Proactively & consistently network and remember that every connection you make has the potential to shape the trajectory of your business.
Always remember:
Hard Work + Net Work = Smart Work
Smart Work + Luck = Success
PS: A quick and important disclaimer here is the need to be authentic and cultivate meaningful relationships. Shallow relations won't bear any fruit! Happy building! 😄
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